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Just “Stuff” Everywhere…A letter to Moms

18 Nov

Seriously.  It is probably one of the biggest issues I have struggled with and continue to do so.  Just STUFF everywhere.  Right now my living room looks like a land mine of toys went off, all of my beautiful framed pictures on my PB Studio Wall Shelves are all laid down flat on each of the top 3 shelves because my one year old loves to knock them all down, toddler puffs are on the coffee table, the kitchen table ends up being the hording zone of STUFF and there is laundry in my dryer (my secret hiding place).  BUT I am finally having my cup of coffee that has been warmed up twice while Elena naps and I’m trying to get the energy to work out.  (Enter exhale now) Yes, when we have our precious little ones there is just STUFF everywhere and it can be overwhelming.  I know.  God forbid anyone wants to come over or heaven forbid “stop by”.  (PSA..People don’t do that to Moms of little ones.)  We all know its true, admit it.  BUT, and its a big BUT one day, and I don’t ever want that day to come,  I will have too much time on my hands.  My house will be immaculate and I will miss all that STUFF everywhere. So Moms (and Dads).  Lets try to give ourselves a break.  It is okay that my house is a “mess”.  Lets all say this together.  Hi, my name is ___________________ and it is okay that my house is a “mess”.  It means that we are being great parents and focusing on our kids.  I want to applaud us all for putting our children first. Keep up the good work Moms and Dads!  And in the words of Juan Pablo, “Esss Okay”. 😉 xoxo, Meredith “Children are not a distraction from more important work.  They are THE MOST important work!” – C.S. Lewis  

A Movement: Lifting Up and Celebrating other Moms

27 Feb


When I became a Mom and held the precious gift God have given to us, it was the most magical feeling in the world.  I was now living for another.  Every thought, every move was for my precious baby girl.  Anything she needed I was there.  And when I became a Mom I started thinking in extreme detail about how I was gonna do my absolute best and give her the best of everything.  I made decisions for my baby that I thought was best.  For example: breastfeeding vs. formula, co-sleeping vs. crib, making baby food vs. buying pre-made food, staying at home vs. working, private vs. public school etc.  You get the idea.  But for some reason we are or I should speak for myself, I was not at all prepared for the competitiveness of other Moms.  I just couldn’t and still can’t understand the need for Mom’s to judge or criticize other Moms.  As for most Moms, I can assure you they don’t hold their baby and say,  “I plan on making some horrible choices and I plan on being “a bad mom.”   Call me a “glass half full kind gal” but I think most Moms want and try their absolute best!  Whats best for them and their family.  Of course there are bad days but there are also many good days!  I could go on and on with stories that I have experienced or stories my girlfriends tell me on how Moms compete with each other or criticize, but I don’t want that to be the focus.


What I do want to focus on is how can we change this?  How can we as Moms change something that goes on in our society into something good?  I love the above quote.  “We rise by lifting others.”  Lets have a movement to stop judging other moms but instead lets support one another through encouragement or even a friendly smile.  I love doing this when I see other Moms out in public and one kid is having a meltdown, the other is begging for a toy,  you’ve seen this.  Instead of criticizing what she is or isn’t doing, just give her one of those kind smiles.  You never know what that could do for someone.  My Mom recently received a letter from an old friend in high school that wrote her to tell her the major impact she had on his life just because she took the time to smile at him and say hi, when no one else would. Lets not make the joy of Motherhood like high school by making Moms try to “fit in.”  We’ve been through high school with the cliques and nobody wants to go back.  We all have enough to do in the real world and “ain’t nobody got time for that.”  You see we never know what is going on with others, especially Moms.  Everything isn’t always as it seems and to quote – To Kill a Mockingbird – “You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view — until you climb into his skin and walk around in it.”


Let’s CELEBRATE one another!!  Let’s CELEBRATE that we are Moms and what an amazing bond that could be for us to all have and share together.  We are the only ones that know what it is like to be Moms.  We are so blessed to be Moms! I can’t tell you how much it means to me to have my dearest and best girlfriends, who are Moms in my corner.  They are just a text or phone call away when I need advice, need help making a decision or just being there to listen to me.  It means the world to me to have these special relationships who are Moms where there is no judgement, no assumptions, no critique.  That’s what I wish for us all whether we are best friends or just a casual acquaintance at a play date, or soccer game etc.


Another thing I would love is for all of us to CELEBRATE each others children!  I love receiving texts, emails or seeing pictures on social media of my girlfriends child when they just rolled over, or ate solid foods or crawled, or walked or got their orange white belt in jiu jitsu or just plain looking cute!  I CELEBRATE my friends kids!  I want the absolute BEST for them and I know they want the best for mine.  I cheer them on just as I would cheer mine on.  If we LIFT OTHERS, including Moms and their kids, WE WILL RISE!  We will rise in so many ways.  We will feel better about ourselves, and our Heavenly Father see’s our loving and kind behavior just as his son lead us by example.  “Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be condemned; forgive, and you will be forgiven;” Luke 6:37.  And my favorite,  Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” Luke 6:31.


Lets all stop judging other moms, or competing with their kids.  Lets lead our kids by example of being kind to others, especially other Moms.  Lets support one another through encouragement.  We all know what it is like to be judged or criticized in some way by another Mom.  Unfortunately, at some point we all have done this.  So lets start the movement of not judging, of CELEBRATING one another!   And when you get a chance today, tomorrow, any day, CELEBRATE another Mom by LIFTING HER UP!

To all the Moms out there, “I THINK YOU ARE DOING A GREAT JOB!”



~Moms for Moms Day is coming up March 4th!  Let’s CELEBRATE one another!!~

Another great blog post to read below: END THE MOMMY WARS


Thank you to a follower for sending me this picture!


What do we know about Sunscreen?!

10 Apr

Ahhh, the warm and sunny weather is upon us and it's my favorite time of year, just like many of you I'm sure.  We all start going outside more; walks, sitting outside to eat, picnics, going to the park, getting invited to cook "out" parties, and soon we will be going to the pool, the lake or the beach.  We all love that "sun kissed" look and heck, let's face it, we all look much better with a little "tan."  Just like the iconic Elizabeth Taylor sunning herself you see above.  Whether we like to have color or rather not have color we all can agree on wearing sunscreen is the absolute best thing for us right?  But have we actually looked to see what actual ingredients are in our sunscreen?!  I was shocked when I learned the truth about all of the harmful toxins that are in our sunscreens not to mention skin care in general.  Our skin is our largest organ and absorbs 8x faster than anything we could eat or drink.  So it would be smart of us to actually look at the ingrediants we are applying to our skin, especially our precious children's skin.

Read below some of the information that is out there on all the harmful toxins that are in most all sunscreens.

A consumer advocacy group has a warning for parents who think they‘re protecting their family with sunscreen: You may be getting burned.

The Environmental Working Group, a Washington-based nonprofit, has released an investigation of nearly 1,000 brand-name sunscreens that says four out of five don‘t adequately protect consumers and may contain harmful chemicals.

The group says that some of the products of the nation‘s leading brands — including Coppertone, Neutrogena and Banana Boat — are the poorest performers.

The active ingredients of sunscreens are compounds that absorb, reflect or block ultraviolet light. Sunscreens are regulated by the Food and Drug Administration not as cosmetics but as over-the-counter drugs. They’re rated based on their Sun Protection Factor (SPF); the higher the SPF, the better the protection against sunburn. (Please make sure you read that last sentence.  We've all been tricked to think the higher the number of SPF the higher we are protected.  Simply not true.)

The Environmental Working Group says that the SPF rating on a sun product is only part of what consumers need to know, and that the biggest problems with sunscreens are that they don‘t offer appropriate protection and that many contain unsafe ingredients.

Despite sunscreen use being higher than ever, skin cancer is still on the rise. The most common cancer in the United States, skin cancer accounts for nearly 50% of all cancer cases. 

The Environmental Working Group just released their fourth annual Sunscreen Guide, with recommendations for only 39 of the 500 sunscreen products reviewed. The EWG found many products misleading in their claims, lacking in adequate protection from all types of ultraviolet radiation, and containing many potentially hazardous chemicals. Because the FDA still has not issued any sunscreen industry regulations, which they began drafting 32 years ago, consumers are left to discover the safest products on their own.

EWG Senior Vice President For Research Jane Houlihan said, "Many sunscreens available in the U.S. may be the equivalent of modern-day snake oil, plying customers with claims of broad-spectrum protection but not providing it, while exposing people to potentially hazardous chemicals that can penetrate the skin into the body."

New FDA research data reveal that a type of Vitamin A (found on the label as "retinyl palmitate" or "retinol"), which is in 41% of sunscreens, may actually increase the growth of cancerous skin tumors and lesions. While vitamin A is used in many skin products for its antioxidant properties to slow skin aging, when in the sun it may have photocarcinogenic properties that can damage the skin more than protect it. The FDA's one year study found that lab animals coated in a cream with Vitamin A and exposed to sunlight daily developed skin tumors and lesions 21% sooner than the control animals with no vitamin A. While the data are only preliminary, the FDA's full assessment will be issued in October.

(Ref: Article posted at Mercola; Four Out of Five Sunscreens May Be Hazzardous to your Health & The Huffington Post; The Toxic Truth of Sunscreen)

I'm so happy that I found Senegence's Sunscreen! All Natural, and sun protection from Naturally Occurring Volcanic Ash!! It's so light, non-greasy, oil-free and works! My kids never get burnt! And they love it too (which they used to complain at my other ones and they were so greasy too). And I love that is safe for them!!

SeneSun™ SunScreen SPF 30 is an effective spritz-on sunscreen that is light and non-sticky. Unlike other sunscreens, SeneSun™ SunScreen is barely noticeable when applied as it does not feel thick, oily, or muddy. You know what we mean… other sunscreens seem as though they make you even hotter in the sun – like you applied a thick smothering blanket layer across the surface of your skin. Protect yourself while making your skin more beautiful with SenePlex® Complex. SeneSun™ SunScreen SPF 30 is oil-free, and you barely know it’s there.

You can purchase the Sunscreen here at www.NaturallyGlamorousArtistry.com

I am so happy that I am able to get this information out there to all the SUPERMOMELS (includes everyone ;)  This goes along with the whole reason I started this blog is to truly help people.  This is perfect timing of me learning about this to share with you before our Summer.  I hope that this has helped you and especially your precious children.

All My Love XOXO,


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